| | What does it mean to have matured?
Does it mean we're more patient? Does it mean we're more wise? Or, that we find ourselves more and more able to compromise in the face of conflict? Or, that we've re-prioritized our lives to presumably "more important" things?
I can't be sure of what. exactly. it is... but I am sure that it's making all the difference.
It seems almost wasteful that a good chunk of the last year of our three and a half year relationship was consumed by bickering, arguing, and cold-shouldering. Still, it's become increasingly apparent to me - and I'm sure to him - that things, as I'd suspected and hoped, happen for a reason (though we may not always know what they are, as I reported in a past entry). Taking that risk - and what a risk it was - has brought me, us, and our general lives, to a point that is so much more valuable than what it was. In addition to the history, the laughs, the connection, the kisses, and the hugs, we now have individual security and composure.
So Cool. 
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| | Posted 5/7/2006 7:02 PM - 52 Views - 10 eProps - 8 comments
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